A STEP FORWARD =)

24/12/11 the day we decided to take a step ahead, to introduce ourselves to our big families and making a sign that we are into a thing that called marriage = The Engagement.. Asalnye memanglah dulu terfikir nak simple habis, tak perlu lah tunang2 cincin tanda pe..Tapi dua2 belah keluarga dah bersetuju dan sepakat, if possible biarlah uruskan benda yang baik ni dengan sesederhana mungkin but at the same time, biarlah orang tak berkata-kata yang tak sedap didengar..plus considering both families nye background dan tradisi gak..biar semua orang pun rase senang hati, senang cakap mcm tu lah =) Alhamdulillah, dalam majlis kenduri dan doa selamat yg sederhana, majlis pertunangan berjalan dengan lancar.. Perbincangan n persetujuan yg dicapai antara family, biarlah rahsia =).. important thing that i've learnt, in making decissions especially on this matter, semua orang terlibat, tak boleh nak betul2 berkeras ikut kepala kita sendiri even kite ade hujah2 pandangan2, they have theirs (elders: the parents, grandparents, aunties, uncles, cousins) too.. hormat jugak pandangan diorang..especially bila diorang sanggup turun padang berbesar hati plan macam2, n surprisingly very anticipative n enthusiastic with the plans ahead.. yang paling penting dua2 keluarga pun sepakat n hepi, bagi masa yg cukup utk buat persiapan semua..and bagi masa for my parents untuk spend time ngan anak diorang yg suke wat hal macam2 ni..I know indeed semua parents akan rase berat nak lepaskan anak diorang, especially if anak perempuan kan, even diorang tak penah directly cakap mcm tu..=)

Jodoh pertemuan semua ketentuanNya.. I never plan and expect to meet him here, to involve in whatever circumstances that had happenned, to fall for each other..to be serious and care for each other, for me to introduce a guy to my parents and family for the first time, and to take him as my future husband.. I'm not perfect, maybe he's either..we are not perfect..only Allah knows what's exactly inside our heart before, now and then..

Whats important for us now, untuk pandai2 jage diri masing2, keep focus in our studies.. Try utk fahami n tolerate each other, matangkan lg diri masing2 especially me myself, melengkapkan kekurangan2 pada diri..sabar menghadapi cabaran2 n dugaan2.. InsyaAllah doakan yang terbaik for us and semuanya berjalan lancar suatu hari nanti dan semoga jodoh kami berpanjangan n berkekalan..
Amin~ =)